This may come as a complete shock, or for some it may be something that has been suspected may happen for a period of time.

It is not uncommon for some partners to 'take time out' totally unexpectedly for a few days and this in itself is usually due to various issues. However, leaving and never returning and never making contact ever again is a completely different situation to deal with.

Not only will there be immense emotion to deal with - where have they gone, are they well, could anything have happened to them, have they had an accident? .... your imagination can run wild. It may also be some time before you are entirely sure whether or not they are likely to return.

In the first instance you should notify the police that your partner has gone missing. The situation surrounding them leaving will of course be very relevant.

Following that, one of the most important issues to deal with is to ensure that you and the children can manage financially and are able to stay in your home.